A newly born baby needs time to grow up to certain actions. No matter how strong your desire is, no matter how much milk the baby eats and how accurately it is swaddled, the baby is not going to start walking before it grows up. Thus all happens in due time.
The same happens when a child learns to walk. He takes a few steps and falls.The parent at this moment is not blaming the child, but is looking and smiling. He does not say: “Oh, you are so-and-so, why are you falling? You must go! Come on, go! You are a soldier, march forward!" No, the parent understands that weak, unstable legs still fail the child, he stumbles, falls down, then gets up. And after a while he will definitely go.
The same thing is with us. Our spiritual willpower muscle is very poorly developed when we set out on our path. We try doing something, and then give it up. We try again and roll back. We start to think that we are unable to stay on the path, we feel guilty. But you are to think: “This is not true! You can do it! You will succeed! It just takes time to grow up".